Asexual Autistic Artist
Has a residence to shareMillennial (30-45)Female
My love language is quality time and giving gifts
Profile completeness70%
86 of 123 questions answered · 84 of them shape compatibility scores.
Dealmakers
1. A lifelong history of growth, kindness, curiosity, and healthy relationships (like adult children that still adore them) would make me happy to accept older ladies (gen x or older) who’ve lived creative lives and have warmth, wisdom, and genuine care for others, who notice needs and offer support (like cooking when someone forgets to eat, checking in, or sharing encouragement). I’m also open to younger ladies (18 minimum) who are very creative and feel this house is exactly where they belong. 2. Being fully transitioned and having lived your life even pre transition as the girl you always knew you were would make me happy to accept mtf ladies. 3. Actively making social effort. Using the conversation cards, suggesting activities, sharing what helps you feel comfortable, and showing real curiosity would make me accept someone who takes a bit longer to open up. 4. Extreme vigilance with food cleanliness. cleaning up after cooking or eating, never leaving dishes overnight, and actively preventing pests would make me perfectly happy living with someone who is messy. Messy eater, use every dish to cook one meal, works in progress, clutter or random objects elsewhere are totally fine as long as the food mess and crumbs are cleaned up before bed.Dealbreakers
1.Emotional dishonesty, people-pleasing, or conflict avoidance (choosing comfort or avoidance over truth or suppressing one’s real feelings to keep the peace.) I value authenticity and repair through honest dialogue. 2.Passive aggression or unwillingness to resolve conflict directly (expressing resentment indirectly instead of addressing it openly.) I value direct communication and nonviolent communication skills. 3.Ignoring house agreements once comfort sets in. 4. Not taking initiative in socializing and getting to know each other (keeping to yourself/your room and relying on others to initiate conversation or connection and bring you out of your shell.) I want a community of friendships where emotional labor is shared, not pushed onto others. We all actively engage in building trust and a support 5. Bringing pork meat into the house.Log in to see the full profile
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