Single-parent Shared Housing
Community and support are doubled in a single parent shared house. Intentional communities can offer many benefits to families, especially for single parents. Parents can share expenses, childcare, carpooling, and meals, to have more fun and free time while they raise kids.
Are you looking to share a living room and kitchen with another family within what would typically be a single-family unit? This could be two or more parents sharing a rental or mortgage together, or a parent renting from a homeowner who is a single parent.
Steps to collaborating on a single-parent shared housing
- ICmatch can help you identify other single parents that match the type of housing and lifestyle you’re looking for. Subscribing to post your profile on this page could make it even easier for others to find you. You could also scan other roommate search platforms then invite to check out your ICmatch profile so they can get a full picture of how well your preferences line up. Housing classifieds and Facebook community housing networks could also help you advertise.
- You might go on a road trip or vacation together. If the big issues are going to split you up, it’s better to know that before you start.
- You might write up an agreement with a trial period, after which both families can assess whether or not a continued partnership is workable.
- Once you have in mind who you plan to create the single parent partnership with, it’s a good idea to find a couples therapist who is willing to provide group counseling on a preventive basis. If that’s not feasible, at least establish a weekly meeting, possibly with a set format, for talking over how it’s going. Don’t wait for the small issues to become big divisions.
- Find a home with a self-contained mother-in-law unit, a house with a guest cottage in back, or a large house or apartment with at least two full bathrooms that could be configured to give each family its own private space.
- Investigate the possibilities for a mortgage in which all adults are co-signers, sometimes called a mixer mortgage. Alternatively, one family could take on the loan and the other(s) could draw up a lease or rent-to-own contract with the owning family.
